Julie Bove
2013-03-14 09:18:50 UTC
Just wondering if you wear these? And if so, when did you start buying
them?
I used to wonder why I so many older women wearing these. And then one day
it dawned on me. Because they can! I thought of this when I had that 18
day heavy period and hit every store I could, trying to find black pants.
For years, I spent almost every day wearing black pants. If I felt daring,
I might wear navy blue. I did own a very few pairs of pants in other colors
but it got to the point where I was pretty frightened to wear them, keeping
only the ones that specifically went with some top that I had, and wearing
it only after I was sure that my period had finished and I'd gone for
several days with no bleeding. My periods had gotten so erratic and at
times so heavy that I didn't dare wear anything but dark colors.
So now I have almost an entire rod of dark pants. Most are black. Then
navy blue. A few dark brown pairs. My last period was last May. So I
began feeling safe to wear some other colors. But because I have so many
pairs of pants and because they are still in good shape, I didn't feel that
I should buy any others. I did find some cheap leggings and sweatpants this
winter and I did buy a few in colors like gray, blue and sort of a medium
purple. And I wear them occasionally. But I still feel safer in the dark
colors.
I am not sure that I will ever go so far as to go the white/khaki or pastel
route. I have always hated the color white except for on walls. And for
some reason I prefer it there. I dislike white clothing. Even my wedding
dress was not white, but cream colored. I have very pale skin and do not
look good in white. I also look really bad in khaki and only own one thing
in that color. It's a tank top that I wear on occasion under a sheer top.
I did once own khaki pants. Not by choice. My parents had asked what I
wanted for my birthday and I said dark colored pants. Preferably black or
navy but if they couldn't find those, then burgundy or brown. So what did
they get me? Some sort of hideous khaki knit things with a weird weave to
them. I wore them a few times out of desperation. This was after I had my
daughter. I actually gained weight after I had her! So I needed more
clothes in the bigger size. But I didn't want many because I knew I would
lose weight.
So there I was, wearing those pants when a total stranger came up to me and
told me please to not wear those pants ever again. And I never did. It is
really an awful color on me. But I thought with the pants being so far away
from my face, I might be able to pull it off. Apparently not. Pastels
aren't really my best bet either. I can look good in some of them but I
prefer a more of a grayish tinge to the lighter colors that I wear. And I
tend to wear more medium to bright colors on top.
So... Was there a day when you went out and changed your wardrobe over to
the lighter colors? And if so, how far was it after you had your last
period?
them?
I used to wonder why I so many older women wearing these. And then one day
it dawned on me. Because they can! I thought of this when I had that 18
day heavy period and hit every store I could, trying to find black pants.
For years, I spent almost every day wearing black pants. If I felt daring,
I might wear navy blue. I did own a very few pairs of pants in other colors
but it got to the point where I was pretty frightened to wear them, keeping
only the ones that specifically went with some top that I had, and wearing
it only after I was sure that my period had finished and I'd gone for
several days with no bleeding. My periods had gotten so erratic and at
times so heavy that I didn't dare wear anything but dark colors.
So now I have almost an entire rod of dark pants. Most are black. Then
navy blue. A few dark brown pairs. My last period was last May. So I
began feeling safe to wear some other colors. But because I have so many
pairs of pants and because they are still in good shape, I didn't feel that
I should buy any others. I did find some cheap leggings and sweatpants this
winter and I did buy a few in colors like gray, blue and sort of a medium
purple. And I wear them occasionally. But I still feel safer in the dark
colors.
I am not sure that I will ever go so far as to go the white/khaki or pastel
route. I have always hated the color white except for on walls. And for
some reason I prefer it there. I dislike white clothing. Even my wedding
dress was not white, but cream colored. I have very pale skin and do not
look good in white. I also look really bad in khaki and only own one thing
in that color. It's a tank top that I wear on occasion under a sheer top.
I did once own khaki pants. Not by choice. My parents had asked what I
wanted for my birthday and I said dark colored pants. Preferably black or
navy but if they couldn't find those, then burgundy or brown. So what did
they get me? Some sort of hideous khaki knit things with a weird weave to
them. I wore them a few times out of desperation. This was after I had my
daughter. I actually gained weight after I had her! So I needed more
clothes in the bigger size. But I didn't want many because I knew I would
lose weight.
So there I was, wearing those pants when a total stranger came up to me and
told me please to not wear those pants ever again. And I never did. It is
really an awful color on me. But I thought with the pants being so far away
from my face, I might be able to pull it off. Apparently not. Pastels
aren't really my best bet either. I can look good in some of them but I
prefer a more of a grayish tinge to the lighter colors that I wear. And I
tend to wear more medium to bright colors on top.
So... Was there a day when you went out and changed your wardrobe over to
the lighter colors? And if so, how far was it after you had your last
period?